8 Tricks to Sustaining Sex in Your Relationship

Sex can be difficult to sustain in relationships. While there are some who are able to do it, there are generally factors that can counter sexual excitement in relationships. For example, part of what makes sex exciting is risk and unknown. Think of the difference between the first time you had sex with someone and … More 8 Tricks to Sustaining Sex in Your Relationship

How to Change a Struggling Relationship Into a Healthy Relationship

This is the “part 2” to the article “10 Signs You May Be in an Unhealthy Relationship“. It was brought to my attention that in the first article I made points of the things to keep an eye on, however I made few suggestions of how to handle those ten points. So this article is … More How to Change a Struggling Relationship Into a Healthy Relationship

10 Signs You May Be in an Unhealthy Relationship

Technically, a relationship needs to only be defined by the people who are in the relationship. What is a “good (or healthy) relationship” for two people may be completely different than a “good (or healthy) relationship” for two other people. However, there is a difference between a relationship having its own shape and character, and … More 10 Signs You May Be in an Unhealthy Relationship

Coming to Grips with Marriage: “This is It??”

Many individuals and couples come into therapy with a similar relationship complaint: being married isn’t what they expected. More specifically, the reality of marriage is not aligned with their fantasies of marriage. It’s nice to have fantasies. They give us goals, the drive to achieve, hope, desire, and more. However, when we expect that reality … More Coming to Grips with Marriage: “This is It??”